If your family or birth parents have abandoned you, it is important to take steps to become a parent for yourself and adopt a child like you. If your family tells you or acts like “you should not exist”, take a moment to assess the situation and reflect on your own behavior, as well as the behavior of your family. Consider taking a model of a good family from the movies or media, and use it as a reference for how to resolve any issues. Once you have identified the problem, take the necessary steps to make corrections. If the issue lies with your own attitude, behavior, or education, make the necessary changes to improve these areas. If the problem lies with your family, try to suggest positive methods of communication, and offer recommendations to help them understand the situation. If these methods fail, consider other solutions such as rebellion, strategies, or lip service. If all else fails, invest in yourself and your independence. Focus on growing your funds, education, and other sources of power, and use these resources to make your own fortune with a new family that will be blessed to have you. That way you can assess and hire new apartment to live in with new life partners.
